This Is How It Works

Here I stand in another predicament as far as facebook notifications and friend requests.  I'm sure it's all going on behind my back and there's nothing I can do.  I only have 6 friends on facebook and unfortunately for everyone else, you have to either be a blood relative or be married into my list of friends.  Not that I'm trying to be snobbish but I know from experience that this is how I want it to be.  Now I know how things work  -  you go to a party, have a great time, come home and post on a invite site and then try and friend other people you meet at the party.  Mind you, I did have a great time and would love to talk with these people again but just can't do it on facebook.  I don't even get the notifications because I would have to turn them down and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.  What to do???  Then it  hit me  -  my calling card idea!!!  I ran out of them a while back but I think I need to make more.  This had my e-mail, phone number and blog site on it.  At least this way I'm giving people an alternative to staying in contact.  I have to admit I do check other people's facebook pages.  I hope that's not wrong of me.  Of course I'm only able to see those that permit it.  I think all this stems from the control issues I have.  I didn't realize it until something like this turns up. Now I should get to work on those cards and stop beating myself up.